NOT A RANT (for once lol) this is a problem i have that i would like people's advice on.

Ok, so i'm not sure how many of you know, but i have a My Yearbook account. I don't have MySpace or Facebook or others. I did have an IMVU account though and of course the Yahoo! and Gmail Messengers. But i guess i should go in chronological order so i'll start with IMVU to give background on the subject.

In IMVU i had mainly women that i would talk to. but even before that let me tell you that you don't put your picture up on this site or anything. you are a virtual 3-D character. Anyway i met a few grotesque men asking some... personal requests. i said no of course and gradually stopped going on IMVU.

Then i made an account on My Yearbook, advised by my sister. The first time on there i wasn't too popular and mainly talked with my sister and Takono. i left for a very long time. i almost totally forgot about my account. my popularity was in the millions of ten millions. When i came back and uploaded new pictures i became less than half a million. 351,158 to be precise. i updated everything and then someone i had talked to connected with me again a few days ago. Then one by one, more and more guys started flirting and requesting to friend me. i shrugged them off and continued on with the week. then the 'someone' contacted with My Yearbook's new IM messenger. He started the conversation with 'you're the most beautiful woman' and 'i'll do anything for you' kinda crap. i laughed it off with 'lol' but denied his continuous compliments. then he went a little further with 'i want to see you. i'll get a hotel room and you can come over, we be alone. it will be our little secret.' he insisted on my location but i was able to squirm out of it. Then he became even bolder with his requests. 'send me some sexy pics of yourself' ' particularly in bra and underwear. i'd also like to see one with your tits and your face (so i know its you)' in case anyone doesn't know, its a felony to ask someone under-aged for nude or exposing pictures. (he claims to be 19) i wormed out by going to bed after saying i was afraid of being caught. which was true but i never even in the slightest intended to take them. but i am ashamed to admit that i felt obligated to do it. it was just the way he talked... this quite disturbed me and it haunted my thoughts. i was talking to a nice woman so i logged in the next day but it seemed he was waiting for me to go online. the second i got on he IM-ed me. i am the type of person who doesn't like to be rude so i never just leave or try to hurt someone's feelings so i stayed online even though i was displeased with it. i tried getting out this time by going to work which was true again. then he asked what it was. i told him i babysat or more specifically help run a day care. 'its one of my fantasies to get in bed with a babysitter' then he would talk about 'we could play games. you be the babysitter and i'll be the baby. and you will change my diaper' then it got even worse than that. i didn't go back online that day. i got on the next and he wasn't immediately online and i talked to the woman and in the middle of our conversation someone else IM-ed me. it was another guy. He was about the same as the other one but more direct. the first would say 'i want to lay in bed with you' 'i want to cuddle late at night' this one would ask 'are you shaved?' 'can i stick my ***** in you?' 'then can i finger you?' i was less polite after tired of former harassment so i cut him off faster. then as i was saying 'goodbye' with the second the first came online. he asked again if i was going to send those pictures. and so on and so forth. then he said 'i love you and i wish you would tell me how you feel about me.' so i told him. i was soft about it but clear. i told him i could not see how we could pursue a real relationship online. (i wanted to tell him that all he ever thought about was my body and what he would do with it and that is lust not love but i didn't) he freaked out. he talked about me being a cruel and heartless. i was a cold heart-breaker.

is he right? what do you people think? did i do the right thing? could i have said it different? i'm thinking it was right but i feel horrible for hurting him so. if i did. he may just be pretending to be hurt as an excuse to go to another 'most beautiful girl in the world' since he couldn't get what he wanted from me.

Also what persuades me is when i was 12 or 13 i was sexually harassed by a guy on the bus. i have no tolerance for perverts. i would rather not talk about this one since it is not just talk and crude jokes.

any comments or advice would be appreciated. thank you.